Major Tom
I apologise if my joke annoyed rather than amused.
One thing I learned from Mark McElroy at the UK Tarot Conference was the idea of Queens representing the receptive quality of their suits. Thus, if you associate Coins with Earth, and I do, it follows that the receptive quality of Coins is one of comfort - a physical comfort. The Queen of Coins would make sure you've got a soft cushion to sit on, a nice cup of tea, a meal to satisfy. If she's your lover, she'll follow that right through how you live your lives together.
Translating that comfort into how ex-boyfriends feel about you one can speculate from there. They may have found you easy to be around - even accomodating. Taken to an extreme, they could have felt you were too easy or too laid back. Conversely, as Thirteen suggests they could have found you demanding, high maintenance or even threatening. Queens can certainly be that. Their feelings will most likely fall somewhere in between the extremes.
The thing to be aware of is that no one is an archtype - their feelings about you will be more complex than a visceral response to the Queen of Coins. Only you can decide how that particular card applies to how people you know (or knew) feel about you.
One thing I learned from Mark McElroy at the UK Tarot Conference was the idea of Queens representing the receptive quality of their suits. Thus, if you associate Coins with Earth, and I do, it follows that the receptive quality of Coins is one of comfort - a physical comfort. The Queen of Coins would make sure you've got a soft cushion to sit on, a nice cup of tea, a meal to satisfy. If she's your lover, she'll follow that right through how you live your lives together.
Translating that comfort into how ex-boyfriends feel about you one can speculate from there. They may have found you easy to be around - even accomodating. Taken to an extreme, they could have felt you were too easy or too laid back. Conversely, as Thirteen suggests they could have found you demanding, high maintenance or even threatening. Queens can certainly be that. Their feelings will most likely fall somewhere in between the extremes.
The thing to be aware of is that no one is an archtype - their feelings about you will be more complex than a visceral response to the Queen of Coins. Only you can decide how that particular card applies to how people you know (or knew) feel about you.