Wendywu said:
Tea is essential - for everything!! We drink tea when we work, when we relax, when we are stressed - my mum swore piping hot tea was the perfect drink for a hot summer's day and she was right. Then again, a nice cup of tea is just right on a cold winter's day .... tea is just - essential
You are all forgetting something.
You drink tea when you are at home, or at work. And it has to be with low-fat soy milk, or it tastes weird and horrible, and ends up poured down the sink, no matter how much you want a tea. These days, if I visit anyone except one well-trained friend, I take my own soymilk with me.
But when you go out-out, as in out-and-about not necessarily visiting friends in their own caves, you need cappucchinos. Not tea. Cafe staff make execrable tea, even worse than the tea friends make. Cappucchinos - on soy - are about being waited on. About being indulged, served, and not having to do the washing-up later. They also put you in a good enough mood to be able to tolerate grocery-shopping in brief spurts with only subliminal snarling.
Tea, properly prepared and whitened, is fabulous stuff. But I never have it around cards. I'll have a cup before I start and one after I finish, but I'm absolutely not going to have one on the table. One, it will get cold as I concentrate on the reading. Two, it may accidentally get knocked over the spread. Notta chance. No Tea-n-tarot for me.