An in-depth relationship spread.

Melisandre

I'm working on this spread for personal use and have tried a few different variations at this point, but am still tweaking. Any thoughts are appreciated and if anyone is interested in trying it as well I thought I would share :) It's a quite long but I'm trying to make this a comprehensive spread for figuring out the strengths/weaknesses of any given relationship.


..........[3]......................................................[4]

[1]......[5]......[9]................................[2]........[6]......[10]

..........[7]......................................................[8]


...................................[11]............................................

..........[12]....................................................[13]

..........[14]....................................................[15]


.......[16].[17]..............................................[18].[19].......


...................................[20].............................................


1. Partner 1 now
2. Partner 2 now
3. What Partner 1 brings to the relationship
4. What Partner 2 brings to the relationship
5. What Partner 1 is getting from the relationship
6. What Partner 2 is getting from the relationship
7. How Partner 1 is damaging the relationship
8. How Partner 2 is damaging the relationship
9. What Partner 1 needs from Partner 2
10. What Partner 2 needs from Partner 1
11. Likely outcome if things stay the same
12. Partner 1's hopes for the relationship
13. Partner 2's hopes for the relationship
14. What Partner 1 fears in terms of the relationship
15. What Partner 2 fears in terms of the relationship
16, 17. What Partner 1 should do to improve the relationship
18, 10. What Partner 2 should do to improve the relationship
20. Likely outcome if the advice of 16-20 is followed