hm, so, i don't quite understand the problem. there's tons of people, places, books, foods, dogs, cats that i don't connect with. why should it be different for tarot cards? once in a while i haul out the decks that don't do very much for me and read with them. sometimes that makes me more interested in them, more often not. i'm still a tad irked that i don't find the tarot of the trees as nice as i thought i would, or that i didn't immediately fall in love with wang's golden dawn, or that i'm beginning to find the new century tarot a bit shallow - but that's how it goes. i happen to connect very well with shadowscapes but that's just my personal taste. personal tastes don't go away just because it's a tarot deck
(and - you may have noticed that already - there's a lot of people who just can't "do" shadowscapes)