Sirrah
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Ill give this one a shot and share something that happened to me using this crystal mainly in a dream ritual. I had chosen this stone because it is known for bringing people together, bringing peace to a situation, and also bringing hope.
Backstory: I have been dating someone off and on for 6 years. We were in an off stage and I dated this computer programmer contractor from work, lets call him Daniel, and he was from Sydney Australia. It had been awhile since I had really liked someone, and I felt that there was something really special. Well, that wasn't his intent at all, after a couple weeks it was clear he didn't like me like that. Even though it was more of a 2 week stand, I really didn't handle the rejection well. This happened not long after my brother died and I had been feeling intuitively that something good was going to happen to me that would finally bring me out of a dark place. The opposite happened, and for the next year and a half I fell into a deep depression that I am still working my way out of.
I was reading the book "The Crystal Code" and mixed two rituals together. I purchased this as my main crystal and also used rose quartz and wrote Daniel a note. I also gathered anything I had that had to do with him and put it on the center, with the blue quartz on top of the items and surrounded it with the rose quartz and citrine. I performed the ritual with intent on wishing him well and was looking for closure. I then went to bed and beforehand asked my spirit guide to speak to me through a dream regarding the issue so that I could garner some intuition about it and how I could overcome it. I used an amethyst for this.
I dreamt that my exhusband had come back and we were kind of together, though I was reluctant but trying because in my dream we were still married. We were in bed at my new house now and I got up to go to the bathroom and when I came back it wasn't really my house anymore. My exhusband came out of the room and then I noticed a man I had never seen before in a suit and tie standing next to me. My exhusband said "Keri and I (the19 year old he left me for) are going to go into this room and live, and you are going to live over there." Then they went in to another room together and shut the door. And the guy in the tie was looking at me and without speaking, was asking me why and what had just happened. I woke up abruptly and still had residual fear and was a little panicky. I believe the suit guy was me, the observerer, but went to have a tarot reading after this because I wasn't sure if he was a spirit guide or even my next relationship. She said she also believed he was the observer.
I believe the intensity of the rejection I had been through 9 years ago is still there to some degree, and perhaps the rejection by Daniel was something that had reopened that wound. However the only thing that has helped me get past that troubling time was time and distance itself. So perhaps I need to have another ritual which could release that.
I keep the blue quartz crystal with my others but have decided I wont hold it unless I'm in a positive place and feel forgiveness and good feelings towards Daniel.
I hope this is the kind of situation that's okay to share!
Ill give this one a shot and share something that happened to me using this crystal mainly in a dream ritual. I had chosen this stone because it is known for bringing people together, bringing peace to a situation, and also bringing hope.
Backstory: I have been dating someone off and on for 6 years. We were in an off stage and I dated this computer programmer contractor from work, lets call him Daniel, and he was from Sydney Australia. It had been awhile since I had really liked someone, and I felt that there was something really special. Well, that wasn't his intent at all, after a couple weeks it was clear he didn't like me like that. Even though it was more of a 2 week stand, I really didn't handle the rejection well. This happened not long after my brother died and I had been feeling intuitively that something good was going to happen to me that would finally bring me out of a dark place. The opposite happened, and for the next year and a half I fell into a deep depression that I am still working my way out of.
I was reading the book "The Crystal Code" and mixed two rituals together. I purchased this as my main crystal and also used rose quartz and wrote Daniel a note. I also gathered anything I had that had to do with him and put it on the center, with the blue quartz on top of the items and surrounded it with the rose quartz and citrine. I performed the ritual with intent on wishing him well and was looking for closure. I then went to bed and beforehand asked my spirit guide to speak to me through a dream regarding the issue so that I could garner some intuition about it and how I could overcome it. I used an amethyst for this.
I dreamt that my exhusband had come back and we were kind of together, though I was reluctant but trying because in my dream we were still married. We were in bed at my new house now and I got up to go to the bathroom and when I came back it wasn't really my house anymore. My exhusband came out of the room and then I noticed a man I had never seen before in a suit and tie standing next to me. My exhusband said "Keri and I (the19 year old he left me for) are going to go into this room and live, and you are going to live over there." Then they went in to another room together and shut the door. And the guy in the tie was looking at me and without speaking, was asking me why and what had just happened. I woke up abruptly and still had residual fear and was a little panicky. I believe the suit guy was me, the observerer, but went to have a tarot reading after this because I wasn't sure if he was a spirit guide or even my next relationship. She said she also believed he was the observer.
I believe the intensity of the rejection I had been through 9 years ago is still there to some degree, and perhaps the rejection by Daniel was something that had reopened that wound. However the only thing that has helped me get past that troubling time was time and distance itself. So perhaps I need to have another ritual which could release that.
I keep the blue quartz crystal with my others but have decided I wont hold it unless I'm in a positive place and feel forgiveness and good feelings towards Daniel.
I hope this is the kind of situation that's okay to share!