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Will you and Sj get together informally ?
You - Mercury
Him - Jupiter
Part of desire @ Virgo 9,33"
Mercury and jupiter flows towards each other = (+)
Looking at the part of romantic desire, falling @ 6 virgo and in your 1st house and is also your significator, this is showing a strong desire from your part towards him.
Significator of lot of desire is mercury, same as you and jupiter retrogrades back towards mercury (+)
Jupiter retrogrades towards the Asc and NN (+)
Moon flows away from jupiter and mercury (-)
I do see that you and Aj will have something going on in the future.
This won't happen straight away i'm saying it will take another couple of months at least.