What is a good spread to help a poly couple find a third?

Kandj

We are a poly couple looking for another woman. I am not sure if there are any spreads to guide us to a third or to help us choose the right woman for us. So we were wanting to know if anyone here had any suggestions on spreads that could help us. Thank you. Any ideas would be appreciated.
 

danieljuk

I love a spread finding challenge :)

I looked in the spread index in the spreads area of the forum and they are all really love triangle type spreads. Tarot Orat does good poly spreads, here is her triad spread you could use that and add to it! or custom make one.

A bit like Ravenest's

what I want in the relationship
what my partner wants in the relationship
what I want in the third person
what my partner wants in the third person
what will the third person want?
what will the third person be like?
where will we meet them / how to find them?

if you want to know exactly about the person in a predictive way, adapting this soul mate spread:

1 - What will the third person be like? (Court Card)
2 - In what situation will I/ we meet them? (Minor)
3 - How to approach/charm the third person? (Ace)
4 - Advice card (Major)
 

Kandj

Great

We'll have to give this one a try. We've looked online and haven't found anything that really applied to this situation. After my wife gives it a look we'll try it when we can and get back to you.

Thanks,
John