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Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel you had wasted your time? A relationship that took an emotional investment from you yet which gave you nothing back in return? Maybe things started out well and then later just went down the toilet. Or maybe the relationship didn't happen at all, but certain factors made you think it would. So you got your hopes up for what would turn out to be a big let-down.
In short, have you ever had a romantic relationship or experience that just plain baffled you? A relationship that seemed completely pointless?
This spread is for those who would like to find meaning in what may appear to be a meaningless experience. It's for those who want to know if there was a purpose to it all, who want to know, What was the Point???
The shape is supposed to resemble a glass of champagne. You may have to tweak the questions a bit to fit your specific circumstances, sexual preference, etc.
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1 - What did I learn from my experience with this person?
2 - What did I gain from my experience with this person?
3 - What did I lose because of my experience with this person?
4 - My subconscious feelings about losing the person.
5 - What did he learn from his experience with me?
6 - What did he gain from his experience with me?
7 - What did he lose because of his experience with me?
8 - His subconscious feelings about losing me.
9 - What karmic factors brought him into my life?
10 - What karmic factors brought me into his life?
11 - What did he gain by ending the relationship with me?
12 - What did he lose by ending the relationship?
13 - What did I gain by his ending the relationship with me?
14 - What did I lose by his ending the relationship?
15 - What was the point of this relationship?
16 - What was the meaning of it?
17 - What was the essence of it?
18 - What was the foundation of it?
19 - What is the future of it?
In short, have you ever had a romantic relationship or experience that just plain baffled you? A relationship that seemed completely pointless?
This spread is for those who would like to find meaning in what may appear to be a meaningless experience. It's for those who want to know if there was a purpose to it all, who want to know, What was the Point???
The shape is supposed to resemble a glass of champagne. You may have to tweak the questions a bit to fit your specific circumstances, sexual preference, etc.
-----1--2--3--4---
-----5--6--7--8---
--------9-10------
-------11-12------
-------13-14------
--15-16-17-18-19-
1 - What did I learn from my experience with this person?
2 - What did I gain from my experience with this person?
3 - What did I lose because of my experience with this person?
4 - My subconscious feelings about losing the person.
5 - What did he learn from his experience with me?
6 - What did he gain from his experience with me?
7 - What did he lose because of his experience with me?
8 - His subconscious feelings about losing me.
9 - What karmic factors brought him into my life?
10 - What karmic factors brought me into his life?
11 - What did he gain by ending the relationship with me?
12 - What did he lose by ending the relationship?
13 - What did I gain by his ending the relationship with me?
14 - What did I lose by his ending the relationship?
15 - What was the point of this relationship?
16 - What was the meaning of it?
17 - What was the essence of it?
18 - What was the foundation of it?
19 - What is the future of it?