How do you really use these?

Aerin

hunter said:
I can get really traumatized by Dorian decks. I have some serious traumas in my past and present and some of her cards basically say everything is wonderful and if we are upset, we just need to change our negative thinking. I have screamed and thrown the cards across the room while using some foul language.

Just remember to use the card and text as a GUIDE to jumpstart YOUR intuition. The text is not a pronouncement from the creator, that you are a selfish, whiny screwup.

My social psychology tutor used to call the extreme end of such self-help "self abuse".

Personally I only use the deck if I want to be told all is wonderful.