hunter
divinemsm said:When you cast a spell, you have to ask yourself first if you are will to live with the consequences, whatever they may be. If you can get past that, knock yourself out.
I think this is the key for me to focus on. Not someone else's will. Yes will is important...but...I've got so much baggage about will from Christianity and the abuse convincing me I NEVER have the right to inconvenience anyone EVER, no matter what happens to me.
Can I live with the consequences? That is really helpful! Thanks