Reverie
I think its saying that in matters of heart you need to consult your head first and not jump into deep quickly.. the queen is accepting the offer but with cautious and is not ready to let go of her sword.. I think this is saying don't say what you think/feel too quickly.. weigh the situation first before expressing anything love or anger too quickly and most of all, don't share too much too soon.. for example maybe you share too much of what you start to feel with the person too quickly.. and maybe if you felt those rushes of feelings it would have been better to keep it all to yourself for the time being and not communicate it so much.. and waited for more dates/months to pass and maybe by then there would have been a more mutual expressing of feelings from both of you..
Hello!
Absolutely agree. I'm learning that just recently, because before I would express my feelings to the man so early and actually they all grow cold after that. So attracting the man is never a problem for me, it's just about my attitude so I can keep him.
My mistake on our last date is that we were physically intimate, not even all the way, and really had an intense rush of feelings after that whereas before I was completely in control of myself and I think he actually found that to be very attractive. But spending the night I showed him a vulnerable side. Then I texted more than I usually do, and the chase stopped for him. However, I am seeing him again tonight, but he's keeping it light by inviting me to a party.
I feel that the queen of sword is more choosy in what she communicates than the king.. she maintains an aura of secrecy in terms of what she feels truly..
Secrecy. I have a friend like this and it's amazing how reserved she is. I HAVE to stop sharing so much with people who are new in my life. But it's hard, I trust easily. But I need to stop talking about my private life. It creates undue intimacy with people too soon, before I know them.
also the hand that is reaching down, is saying that you should perhaps in future wait for the other person to express feelings first and you should be the one examining their intentions and not the other way around..
I hope this helps and good luck with it all.. xxx
Yes agreed. I didn't even say anything about my feelings, I just said that I never realized I felt so aroused around him after we were intimate. And then I kept in contact during the week, which I don't do usually.
Thank you love