LaRazia
Have you ever had that problem?
I cant recall when I had it in real life, maybe one time I did but it happened to me relatively frequently on boards as well as this one.
Now, I must state that I am not a tarot reader who has ten or 30 plus years of experience but when I do read for people I really do it to honestly help in the best way that I can,and I consider myself skilled with the deck that I read.
I would do a reading, or pull a couple of cards depending on the context of the reading and question,and wheter they want a full detailed reading or a shorter one.
And it has happened to me that some of the people whom I do the reading ( who are fellow readers as well ) get so insulted and offended at the cards that I pulled, because those werent the cards they were expecting.
When I do give the reading, they would be rude to me and get argumentative and cant seem to comprehend that when I give a reading, I am not personally involved in their question and have no opinion on the matter, I just give the opinion of the cards but somehow they mix those two up and assume that my reading is my biased personal opinion of their problem, which it is not.
At first I was nice and tried to explain to them how my tarot reading is separate from any opinion I might have on their issue or problem but instead of an apology for being rude to me for no reason they simply cut off all contact with me.
On this board with some members it has gone as far as them refusing to post in topics where I am active after they get the reading that displeases them from me. So,when other members ask them why arent they active in these topics and threads they tell them it is because of me and then the rest avoid posting with me as well so...lol.
Has anyone of you ever experienced treatment like this in real life or your blogs or in any way after you gave someone a reading they didnt personally like?
I cant recall when I had it in real life, maybe one time I did but it happened to me relatively frequently on boards as well as this one.
Now, I must state that I am not a tarot reader who has ten or 30 plus years of experience but when I do read for people I really do it to honestly help in the best way that I can,and I consider myself skilled with the deck that I read.
I would do a reading, or pull a couple of cards depending on the context of the reading and question,and wheter they want a full detailed reading or a shorter one.
And it has happened to me that some of the people whom I do the reading ( who are fellow readers as well ) get so insulted and offended at the cards that I pulled, because those werent the cards they were expecting.
When I do give the reading, they would be rude to me and get argumentative and cant seem to comprehend that when I give a reading, I am not personally involved in their question and have no opinion on the matter, I just give the opinion of the cards but somehow they mix those two up and assume that my reading is my biased personal opinion of their problem, which it is not.
At first I was nice and tried to explain to them how my tarot reading is separate from any opinion I might have on their issue or problem but instead of an apology for being rude to me for no reason they simply cut off all contact with me.
On this board with some members it has gone as far as them refusing to post in topics where I am active after they get the reading that displeases them from me. So,when other members ask them why arent they active in these topics and threads they tell them it is because of me and then the rest avoid posting with me as well so...lol.
Has anyone of you ever experienced treatment like this in real life or your blogs or in any way after you gave someone a reading they didnt personally like?