tryingtoreadtarot said:
one more question for the aquarians...how do we get to your hearts? in other words what makes you happy and/or melt so to say.
i am trying to play this right with him
Being open, honest and direct with him. As I said previously, stuff like manipulation, etc., make you lose points, and less the aquarius will be open and trustful with you. Aquarius need time to warm up, especially emotionaly, and say stuff that make them feel fragile.
Be mysterious. You probably think it contradicts the point above but it does not. Mystery excites the imagination, aquarius like it. Just don't say everything right away. Don't be the type of person who, after meeting for the first time someone, has told the person everything in 5 minutes about their life up to their toothpaste brand. Make him feel as if even after spending 50 years with you he will not have discovered everything about you, and I do not mean bad surprises by that.
And, as strange as it might seem, to excite an aquarius, you have to start with the brain. So start thinking about subjects to discuss with him, (like history, politic, art, etc.) and I can assure that not agreeing with an aquarius is actually a good thing, they like that when people have an opinion of their own.
Also, aquarius tend to be geeky, so if yours is one, try to learn more about computers and stuff, or better, ask him to teach you if you're total newbie in this. Watch him get all excited as he replaces your hard disk.