Stu123
Hello, sorry if this is in the wrong section - feel free to move it and I apologise for the hassle.
Long story short: I'm basically looking at how different wording of the two questions shown different outcomes - Swords for feelings, but majors and court cards for asking the second question. I wonder whether I'm biased here.
So, I would ask for someone's feelings and I would get Swords cards - the King, the Queen, the Ace or the Page. Sometimes the 8,9 or 10 of Wands - this would be in longer intervals, I try not to ask the same question in the same day. These are the recurring cards and it goes on for weeks. I interpret the Wands as quite turbulent cards. 8 of Wands esepcially came up at the beginning, maybe our connection was a new exciting thing back then. The 9 and 10 of Wands I see as more concerning. 10 is definitely a burden - maybe the feelings we excessive? 9 could be about new beginnings too, but also about moving further from them. Wands could also indicate that the feelings are overwhelming. Kong of Swords is very blunt and the Queen of Swords has been hurt before. Again J get a sense of opresses emotions and a head over heart attitude. Person not wanting to admit their feelings or simply being afraid to do so. Ace of Swords is communication, so maybe a desire to get to know each other better before making a decision. Swords are also cold, so again I don't get sense of feelings, but maybe a bland connection or perhaps lust?
I was dissapointed feeling like this person doesn't like me at all. One day I asked whether he loves me because that was my feeling, that there was a connection. I would get the Queen of Wands or Cups and the Star recurring, sometimes the World card or the High Priestess. The Queen of Wands is an energetic personality and the Queen of Cups is a nurturer, so there's definitely a very admiring kind of feelings for somebody. However, could these feelings be more family-like, so maybe regarded as feelings for a sister/mother? World is obviously positive too. The High Priestess is admired, but often platonic, so I don't necessarily sense romance, though some kind of feelings exist there. Undefined or undecided ones perhaps.
What puzzled me that the second question gave me mostly majors and the 2 Queens which look much more positive and loving. While not all necessarily show love, I see these are much more powerful.
Could this indicate that this person doesn't want to express their feelings (so the feelings show as quite cold, so we see the Swords cards, while the reality is much more romantic and when I ask directly, their true feelings show because it's not showing their worries, for example?)
I'm afraid that the good cards just mirror my wishes and that I'm biased.
Any thoughts appreciated Thank you!
Long story short: I'm basically looking at how different wording of the two questions shown different outcomes - Swords for feelings, but majors and court cards for asking the second question. I wonder whether I'm biased here.
So, I would ask for someone's feelings and I would get Swords cards - the King, the Queen, the Ace or the Page. Sometimes the 8,9 or 10 of Wands - this would be in longer intervals, I try not to ask the same question in the same day. These are the recurring cards and it goes on for weeks. I interpret the Wands as quite turbulent cards. 8 of Wands esepcially came up at the beginning, maybe our connection was a new exciting thing back then. The 9 and 10 of Wands I see as more concerning. 10 is definitely a burden - maybe the feelings we excessive? 9 could be about new beginnings too, but also about moving further from them. Wands could also indicate that the feelings are overwhelming. Kong of Swords is very blunt and the Queen of Swords has been hurt before. Again J get a sense of opresses emotions and a head over heart attitude. Person not wanting to admit their feelings or simply being afraid to do so. Ace of Swords is communication, so maybe a desire to get to know each other better before making a decision. Swords are also cold, so again I don't get sense of feelings, but maybe a bland connection or perhaps lust?
I was dissapointed feeling like this person doesn't like me at all. One day I asked whether he loves me because that was my feeling, that there was a connection. I would get the Queen of Wands or Cups and the Star recurring, sometimes the World card or the High Priestess. The Queen of Wands is an energetic personality and the Queen of Cups is a nurturer, so there's definitely a very admiring kind of feelings for somebody. However, could these feelings be more family-like, so maybe regarded as feelings for a sister/mother? World is obviously positive too. The High Priestess is admired, but often platonic, so I don't necessarily sense romance, though some kind of feelings exist there. Undefined or undecided ones perhaps.
What puzzled me that the second question gave me mostly majors and the 2 Queens which look much more positive and loving. While not all necessarily show love, I see these are much more powerful.
Could this indicate that this person doesn't want to express their feelings (so the feelings show as quite cold, so we see the Swords cards, while the reality is much more romantic and when I ask directly, their true feelings show because it's not showing their worries, for example?)
I'm afraid that the good cards just mirror my wishes and that I'm biased.
Any thoughts appreciated Thank you!