LittleOne
I think it's really interesting knowing about the Saturn return right now while I go through my first one because I am getting to observe how my peers are handling it. I am really distinctly seeing how my friends who worked hard, stayed true to themselves and built stability around 25 are really reaping the benefits of their hard work. Buying houses, having babies, getting married. I saw an ex on Facebook got married last year - 5 years ago when I had been seeing him he was a completely immature knob... he had the makings of a stable person but clearly in the last 5 years really turned things around - he made commitments and stuck to them.
On the flip side, I am really seeing how those who didn't are going bonkers with their "quarter life crises" every six months. Leap frogging jobs instead of building careers, hiding their discontent through partying, drinking and excuse making, etc. I can see their frustration coming out in their actions along with hearing it in their words "I don't know what I want", "I think it's time I grew up", "I can't decide what I want to do for the rest of my life".
The majority of them aren't having huge problems, or bad runs, or anything "bad" as such happening to them, but are definitely struggling... I think as mentioned by celticnoodle and danieljuk.... they are struggling with life getting "serious". They want change in their life without making a change. They haven't identified yet that there is actually freedom in restriction (Saturn = restriction). When you have lots choices in front of you to choose it's just as debilitating as having none if you are unable to make a decision! Making a choice and sticking to it is freeing. Well.... in my mind it is. But I am a Caprcorn-rising, hahaha.
On the flip side, I am really seeing how those who didn't are going bonkers with their "quarter life crises" every six months. Leap frogging jobs instead of building careers, hiding their discontent through partying, drinking and excuse making, etc. I can see their frustration coming out in their actions along with hearing it in their words "I don't know what I want", "I think it's time I grew up", "I can't decide what I want to do for the rest of my life".
The majority of them aren't having huge problems, or bad runs, or anything "bad" as such happening to them, but are definitely struggling... I think as mentioned by celticnoodle and danieljuk.... they are struggling with life getting "serious". They want change in their life without making a change. They haven't identified yet that there is actually freedom in restriction (Saturn = restriction). When you have lots choices in front of you to choose it's just as debilitating as having none if you are unable to make a decision! Making a choice and sticking to it is freeing. Well.... in my mind it is. But I am a Caprcorn-rising, hahaha.