magpie9
Hmm, just personally, I'd guess that if he had a terminal diagnosis, she wouldn't be asking, as she'd already know. With a different diagnosis, he might live for decades.
But evidently she's worried about him, and so maybe in a sense, they are confronting "the unknown" and embarking on a kind of journey. I wouldn't see any of those as "conclusions" but rather, starting points.
People often don't really accept a terminal diagnosis readily a great deal of the time. They keep hoping that it's a mistake. An a.talternative meaning for the 8 cups is moving away from what you have emotionally invested in in the past because you Re now moving towards something even better. Could be welcoming death and whatever comes after.