I don't believe I've ever seen a book that uses these three together either, Briar Rose. If you do find one, I hope you update us here.
One of my favorite herbal and oil books though is titled, "The Complete Book of Essential Oils and Aroma" by Valerie Woorwood, but nothing in there about using crystals as well. I wonder though if you can just research through two books--one like the above and another book on crystal healing--and combine the two. Perhaps this is also a book that you can put together--using the three together!
Good luck.