tarotbear
As I say, don't count on Death to give everybody a big welcoming hug, for me it made huge - and I mean whopping great huge - transitional changes because I had to and not because I wanted to. The situation it has put me in was worse than previous!
I do believe that one of the lessons of the Death card is that 'you can't go home again' and that you need to prepare for what may come next - which may not always be peaches-and-cream, unfortunately, but the lesson is 'You can't expect to go back to what was before - ever.'
Would you have felt better about it if your Death card looked like this one? Beats the 'skeletons on horseback' motif by a mile!