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Originally Posted by kekepania
Thank you so much, yes this is my first baby. I don't understand why the midwives are pushing for induction so soon either, although I must admit, I am ready to have my body back, lol. I had originally wanted a water birth as I have read that it is not only easier on me but the baby as well. But the tubs the hospital provides aren't really conducive to a good water birth although it is possible in them. I did promise not to take the Caullyphyllum, but i am still open to other options. As for the oil, that was the most polite way I could think of to describe why i didn't particularly wish to go that route. Thank you on the sex note too. My drive is one thing that was not curtailed at all this pregnancy. lol
Now since my Vag. check this morning though, I have had some old blood. I thought it was the bloody show, but am not sure as I read that this can be common after an exam, and well this being my first one, I don't know. I have also been having a lot of menstrual like cramps since then as well. I have been making sure to squat during most of them as the midwife said it will help speed the process. It does seem to make the next ones a little stronger and more frequent, but still mild. I was all ready to try cohosh, but one of the other midwives said that those can cause distress in the baby. As for the nipple stimulation. How long and/or frequent do I do it? and is there a particular way of doing it?
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The menstrual cramps is excellent progress, Kekepania. The old blood is probably a bit of both - stimulation from the internal plus some show, esp. if its mucusy.
Nipple stim - fulltime job if its to do its best. 20mins an hour every hour for as many hours as you can take it. Especially now that you are having cramps it could really help. Do it like you're trying to squeeze milk through the areola into the nipple with the thumb and forefinger.
Clary sage is the most favourite and then with lavender, rose, geranium and a few more that I can't think of right now. Try googling them or just use clary sage and lavender. I tell my women to use them in the bath, in the oil burner, on the pillow at night, on tissues to sniff regularly, rub it in the tummy with some carrier oil and any other uses you can think of. Clary sage increases uterine activity and lavender keeps good uterine tone to try and effect regular and co-ordinate contractions. Raspberry leaf tea (made from the leaf) drunk by the gallon helps lots too.
If you can't get a water birth at least use it for the majority of the pain relief. esp. when you're more than 5-6cms dilated. And you never know, junior might just begin to emerge before you can jump out........
My class were all laughing the other day cause we were going through these and someone said 'do them all at the sametime!', we all cracked up!