I never thought about trimming a deck or altering the edges until I saw what others here have done to their own cards. I'm glad that I was given the idea to trim the cards.
Because of having small hands, making them a tad bit smaller makes them more user friendly. I can hold them more comfortably and I find that I spend much more time with them. Sometimes, even if I'm watching TV, I will hold them and gently shuffle them just because they feel "right" and are a comfort to me.
So much more feeling comes out of the cards if some of the borders are trimmed. When they borderless, they are less distracting for me and the reading flows from one card to another and I can get lost in them. That also has left me spending more time with the cards. I have made them my own and they are special only to me.
There are many that have the Hidden Realm, but not everyone has them with beautiful silver edges. They are unique only to me and are my special friends. I am spending hours taking my time with each card. I pick up the card, study it and reflect, then read the meaning out of the book. Then each card is altered lovingly and carefully, allowing a stronger connection from them to me. Thus again, I spend more time with them.
A few years ago, I also felt that it would be sacrilegious and a violation to cut or mark a card and would have never have thought about changing anything. But a few years ago, all of my cards sat in a box and were not used. They are now my dear friends, even with a different hair color, and are out of the box and in my hands every day.
As I get older, I feel that each of us is more diverse than ever before. One of my life's lessons has been that our time is short and we must do what feels right for ourselves and that it just may be different than that what feels right for another, and that it is OK.
May Your Day Be Blessed,
Sassenach