Here is my variation of SweetAsRoses's The Mind Reader Spread (which can be found at
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=102725 )
1-4--7
2-5--8
3-6--9
1. What do I need to know regarding x's last subconscious thought about me?
2. What do I need to know regarding x's last conscious thought about me?
3. What was X's last considered action/behavior because of these thoughts?
4. What do I need to know regarding x's last subconscious feelings towards me?
5. What I need to know regarding x's last conscious feelings towards me?
6. What was X's last considered action/behavior because of these feelings?
7. What is currently influencing x's relationship with me?
8. What direction is my relationship with x currently heading?
9. What should I do? (Advice)
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You may also like my Relationship Box Spread
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=107956
08-09-10
02-12-05
03-01-06
04-11-07
01. Current state of relationship
02. The other person's current behavior or role
03. How the other person views the relationship
04. What the other person brings to the relationship that is having an impact
05. The Querant current behavior or role
06. How the Querant views the relationship
07. What the Querant brings to the relationship that is having an impact
08. What the other person should be working towards to improve the relationship (advice)
09. Direction that the relationship is currently heading towards
10. What the Querant should be working towards to improve the relationship (advice)
11. Subconscious factor influencing the relationship or the relationship's underlying foundation
12. Conscious or major factor influencing the relationship (the glue that keeps the two bonded together or the obstacle that is driving them a part)
Keep in mind that the left column (8, 2 ,3, and 4) is in regards to the other person.
The right column (10, 5, 6, and 7) relate to the Querant.
The middle column (9, 12, 1, and 11) are about the relationship between the Querant and the other person.
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Lately I have been also using:
Metafizzypop's Spread for an unbearable boss (doesn't have to be for a boss or an unbearable person!)
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=106084
Stregaverde's Pesky Problem Person Spread
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=37474
(I use this a lot!)
How Someone Feels Spread by clbzkl
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=72242
Tigerlily's Amazingly Accurate Relationship Spread
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=113674
WalesWoman's Relationship Problem Solving Spread
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=24646
Bec's You And Other Person Spread
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=52840
(I haven't used this spread yet --I just found it this morning-- but it looks like a great one.)
