Jeanette,
In her book, "78 Degrees of Wisdom," Rachel Pollack tells several funny stories about people who react to a reading like this.
Let me quote just a bit: "People who go to tarot readers often do so with a 'show-me' attitude. Since they look at divination as something magical (though not really knowing what they mean) they want the reader to demonstrate magical powers. The value of the reading for them lies in how accurately it matches what they know to be true. . . To make sure the reader is 'honest' they conceal as much of their lives as possible . . ."
Pollack suggests they may actually be scared by the idea of a reading . . . filled with fear and perhaps resentment.
If the woman solicited a reading from you, well, her loss. Perhaps her reading would have been far richer if the woman had participated. Perhaps not. If your intuition is keenly honed, like MeeWah's, the woman can keep her trap shut and you can see right through her, like you've got x-ray vision. And maybe you saw things that you didn't reveal to her.
But naturally you can't blame people for having fears, even if they can't admit them. I mean, gosh, we all do.
Talisman