Need a Spread Suggestion Please..

[Tryska]

I hope someone can help me - I've got a strange situation that I need to figure out how to navigate.

It concerns my partner and his twin. I didn't realize he and his twin lived together, and I guess I never understood how strong the emotional bond is between twins. To the point that I might as well think of myself as the other woman, I think. After all his emotional needs are met thru his brother. And I can see me being involved impacting their relationship, because now his brother's "Person" is going somewhere else. I want to honor that bond, and make things easier all around. So I guess I'm at a loss as to how manage these dynamics. I've never met his brother.

The closest spread I can find to what I need is here:

http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=11942

anyone else have any suggestions?

 

[Glass Owl]

While reading your post the thing that jumped out at me was the fact that you haven't met your partner's brother yet. With this in mind, I looked around and found a spread that may help you in that regard.

I found this spread at http://www.tarotmoon.com/readingdescriptions/New_Relationships/new_relationships.html

(I edited this spread a bit in order to personalize it for you.)

New Relationship spread

This is a spiral spread design with the card meanings are shown below:

8
7 1 2
6 5 3
4

Card 1: How you see him (in this case it would be your partner's twin brother)
Card 2: How you view a possible relationship with him
Card 3: How he sees you
Card 4: How he views a possible relationship with you
Card 5: Areas of compatibility and positives of the relationship
Card 6: Obstacles or problems you may have to overcome
Card 7: The most likely future of this relationship
Card 8: What could be done to get this relationship off to a good start


You could also alter this spread so that you could use it in regards to your relationship with your partner...

Card 1: How you see your partner
Card 2: How you view your relationship with your partner
Card 3: How your partner sees you
Card 4: How your partner views his relationship with you
Card 5: Areas of compatibility and positives of the relationship
Card 6: Obstacles or problems you may have to overcome
Card 7: The most likely future of this relationship
Card 8: What you can do to enhance or improve your relationship with your partner

 

[Tryska]

What an excellent suggestion Glass Owl - I guess I do have to see this as building a relationship of some sort with his twin, if he and I are to make anything serious out of our own relationship.

I'll try that spread out when i get some free time and see what it has to say.