Bonny
There was a major shift that occurred in my relationship with C, on November 10 last year.
I knew because he told me.
But he tried to protect me and offset further argument / drama.
Today I asked the Lenormand cards what it was. What happened that day? What was the crisis?
C had been to drop off his kids at their mothers (his ex) and he had told me an hour or so later that whst had happened was heartbreaking and he would tell me about it later.
I know C. I know he idolises his kids and so I thought it must have been about them, nothing to do with me.
The cards say differently:
(I charged woman as me, man as c, child as their kids and snake as his ex)
His mother often is shown as bear but in this spread I think it might mean his ex.
Clouds- woman - book
Letter - bear - mice
Mountain - house - whips
Jumper: ring
This spread has his relationship with me written all over it.
My reading is that my identity and the secret surrounding me in his life was at issue. (Top line)
His ex or his mother had a letter / text/ email that was stressed.
This created problems around his family in terms of arguments.
The jumper confirje it was all about Union/relationship. C knew that it was about his being pressured to break it off with me and that's why he said it was heartbreaking.
Looking diagonally, the mother figure argues about things that are unclear (clouds/bear/whips)
There are secret obstacles to the mother figure (book / bear / mountain)
Down the columns:
Unclear Messages cause obstacles (c wasn't ready to tell her about us re protecting the children)
Myself and his ex and the family are at the centre of the issue / difficulty/heartbreak (woman/bear/house)
The secret stress causes arguments (book / mice / whips)
So, AT members, it seems to me that IN FACT, his ex did and DOES know about me and my r'ship with c. And in her usual way, she manipulated him via toxic arguments into withdrawal from our relationship.
Any other suggestions?
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How did she find out about us?
Ship / tower / heart
Scythe / clover / moon
House / bear / letter
She found out about us
- through feelings of distant and unattainable love. (Row 1)
- through c and I kissing publicly (dissolute behaviour) and her fluctuating emotions
- through a text message about her family
Reading down the columns:
Through danger to her house/family
Through her own loneliness and pressures from that
Through the beautiful evening and love messages between me and c...
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Did c know that she knew about us?
Jumper : child
Key / mice / child
Key / mice - uncertainty
Key / child - security for child
Mice / child - stress around a child, stressful new beginning
No, but all he could think about and all she stressed to him was the security and stress to do with the child. And her undulating emotionalism was enough to buckle that for them.
Hence he knew he had to call it off with me in time. Heartbreaking, loss.
B
I knew because he told me.
But he tried to protect me and offset further argument / drama.
Today I asked the Lenormand cards what it was. What happened that day? What was the crisis?
C had been to drop off his kids at their mothers (his ex) and he had told me an hour or so later that whst had happened was heartbreaking and he would tell me about it later.
I know C. I know he idolises his kids and so I thought it must have been about them, nothing to do with me.
The cards say differently:
(I charged woman as me, man as c, child as their kids and snake as his ex)
His mother often is shown as bear but in this spread I think it might mean his ex.
Clouds- woman - book
Letter - bear - mice
Mountain - house - whips
Jumper: ring
This spread has his relationship with me written all over it.
My reading is that my identity and the secret surrounding me in his life was at issue. (Top line)
His ex or his mother had a letter / text/ email that was stressed.
This created problems around his family in terms of arguments.
The jumper confirje it was all about Union/relationship. C knew that it was about his being pressured to break it off with me and that's why he said it was heartbreaking.
Looking diagonally, the mother figure argues about things that are unclear (clouds/bear/whips)
There are secret obstacles to the mother figure (book / bear / mountain)
Down the columns:
Unclear Messages cause obstacles (c wasn't ready to tell her about us re protecting the children)
Myself and his ex and the family are at the centre of the issue / difficulty/heartbreak (woman/bear/house)
The secret stress causes arguments (book / mice / whips)
So, AT members, it seems to me that IN FACT, his ex did and DOES know about me and my r'ship with c. And in her usual way, she manipulated him via toxic arguments into withdrawal from our relationship.
Any other suggestions?
~~~~~~~~
How did she find out about us?
Ship / tower / heart
Scythe / clover / moon
House / bear / letter
She found out about us
- through feelings of distant and unattainable love. (Row 1)
- through c and I kissing publicly (dissolute behaviour) and her fluctuating emotions
- through a text message about her family
Reading down the columns:
Through danger to her house/family
Through her own loneliness and pressures from that
Through the beautiful evening and love messages between me and c...
~~~~
Did c know that she knew about us?
Jumper : child
Key / mice / child
Key / mice - uncertainty
Key / child - security for child
Mice / child - stress around a child, stressful new beginning
No, but all he could think about and all she stressed to him was the security and stress to do with the child. And her undulating emotionalism was enough to buckle that for them.
Hence he knew he had to call it off with me in time. Heartbreaking, loss.
B
