You could also use my
"Waiting For The Ring" Spread," tweaking it to suit your needs. For instance:
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1. What do I need to know about my former lover?
2. What do I need to know concerning my former lover's current view of our relationship?
3. What may increase the probability of my former lover coming back to me in the next __ months?*
4. What may decrease the probability of my former lover coming back to me in the next __ months?*
5. What should I do while waiting? (advice)
6. What should I NOT do while waiting? (advice)
*You can use a time frame of your own choosing.
