Hi Noni
Child, heart, scythe, birds, snake
O has been hurting here, you felt like you needed to just go forth and have this discussion to clear the air and to try and clear your mind from what you've been feeling.
He is a very intense guy, very deep, keeps a lot inside him, doesn't like to show his feelings, is not good with handling his feelings. The talk seems to have done a clearing of ways, like you've said things you needed to say and he did too, so it has made a difference.....but he will just hold everything in, and will most likely be thinking things through.
Not sure what you spoke about though, but its like yes its cleared the air, but there's no romance stemming from this just yet....so maybe its just a case of now you both know where you stand at present.