Hello Tarot Lovers! I recently had a discussion with a good friend of mine who is also a healer and works with the tarot as well. I've been having a huge internal struggle where parts of me are conflicting and it is effecting my current relationship with my fiance`. She feels as if things that have been extremely hurtful in my past and personal blame is the source of all my conflict which i can certainly understand. She recommended I stop THINKING so much and do Soul Searching instead and engage in a self love practice which i am all for. But the other recommendation is what I'm stumped on. She has advised me to "put away my tarot" bc i may be looking for answers in them which they cannot provided. They are there to show me a visualization but not give me the answers to the conflicts. She says I may be looking for my spiritual self to give my logical self/mind the answers but that is not possible bc the spiritual self and the logical self are parallel but will never cross paths. I feel as if our spiritual self and the logical mind actually affect one another bc they can are ultimately connected, especially in our Higher Self. She says also, put them away bc it may be best not to put all of this conflicting energy I'm experiencing into my deck. What are your thoughts on this advice?