I stopped eating meat many years ago - when I was twelve and understood that animals LIVE. In my pregnancies, I sometimes felt the need for meat and ate it, but that was maybe a bit of chicken or fish, and I continued to live as vegetarian. Very rarely, in the last few years, when I felt the need, I ate fish.
We eat typical Israeli cuisine, i.e., lots of vegetables. Every day starts with a salad. I prepared maybe once every ten days meat for my family, but didn't eat it myself. Two of my children are vegetarians, too (I didn't influence them at all, they decided by themselves after they left home).
But just now, about a month ago, I decided it's time to become vegan. I read Joel Fuhrman's books and although we never ate the so-called Standard American Diet (I know nobody who does), I felt the overwhelming desire to stop eating eggs, dairy (which I always loved - buttermilk and yogurt) and honey. I read so much about nutrition and nothing ever grabbed me like his book. For a long time, I have felt that we humans are such egotists. The meat industry is just cruel and has gone totally overboard. I don't want to be part of that any more.
Neither my husband nor the children who still live with us has any problem with that. So now I prepare a huge rich salad and a big bowl of soup or vegetables every day. I stopped using salt (but won't stop my daughters from adding salt if they wish to), cut down drastically on oil and grains, and I feel great. So does everybody else in this house.
We may add eggs or a cheese in small numbers in the future, but only bought from local farmers (we live in an agricultural area with a farmer's market nearby). But right now, we thrive on vegetables, beans and fruit, with nuts, seeds, avocados and sprouts.
We have always been plant eaters but for now, we're 100% plant eaters. I think food is a personal choice and if people love their meat, it's not my business to convince them. Not everybody loves legumes.
I also think that as parents, we have the responsibility for our children's health. I'm glad my children grew up loving fruit and vegetables, in a society where processed food was at that time nearly unknown. Everybody ate home cooked, fresh food. And I think it's obvious that most processed food and sweets are not healthy.
It's difficult to draw the line properly, I was never fanatic about sweets and made cakes for the children, and once a week, we bought sweets that had to last for the whole week. But they could ask what they wanted to have and we bought it.
But what I heard last week made me really sad and now I think I'd be stricter. One of my little nieces suffers from a auto immune disease. It's painful, and the treatment is dangerous. The doctors told her parents that sweets and simple carbs make it much worse. And what did my cousin say? "Oh, her elder brother won't be able to live without sweets, and we can't deprive only her". So both children continue with a lot of sweets and unhealthy food.
I can't tell you how sad that made me. I can't interfere but I'd love to give them one of Joel Fuhrman's books. But no, I don't want to preach to others, like a typical recent convert. They're intelligent and educated people and all the information about their daughter's nutrition is just a google away.
For me personally, for health reasons, I'll continue to eat vegan, green, fruity and low fat. Although in my case there was no drastic step necessary, I feel so much better. I wouldn't have believed it.
ETA: Since my own nutrition history is not straightforward, what right do I have to preach to others? It's funny the topic came up here right now when it's rolling around in my brain, just like the fountain pen topic