Amanda
"If I don't move and we have to go our separate ways, then who will be the one to end things?" And I got:
King of pentacles | Knight of cups | Page of Pentacles | Death | 9 of cups -- summarized by the World
This made me jump! Page of pentacles is definitely me, and the King of pentacles would seem to think that this decision would be the right thing to do as well being that he got the 9 of cups. At least that's how I look at it since we both feel the influence of knight of cups + death + the world (distance and long time periods in between visits will kill our romance).
Be careful! Knight of Cups is good at meaning: "leading one to believe". So this guy's inability to uproot and come after you could lead you to believe that ending the relationship is what *he* wants... but all we (or I) know is that he does not want a relationship that is long-distance. Since I don't know the situation as well as you, I'll just leave it at that, especially since you said you've caught wind of some red flags. But you can see how the Knight of Cups may indicate a slippery slope in one's thinking... just be careful that you are making your decisions based on present facts as they develop and not hopeful future dreams or based on what anyone else is doing or what you hope they will do. That's why I mentioned above about the 9 of Pentacles, and really considering if *you* could make yourself that kind of life in a new place- put the guy (and even the family members) on the sidelines of your mind for a moment and see how you really feel about it, personally.
I definitely appreciate your approach to the myriad of questions and people by separating them into simpler spreads. I'll be using this spread forever!
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