Mention the deck before posting anything because that can help other's interpret them correctly.
You seem to be asking similar questions about the same person, am I correct? And you always, no matter what, get the 3 of Swords? The 3 of Swords is the message. Like Gregory said it's about universal sorrow and like i mentioned with this card it can go either way. Tarot is read individually with placements and then it is looked at carefully as an over all story, so just because you have the placement of "his feelings" doesn't mean that your feelings won't be affected because we are all connected. How does his feelings come out? Through your actions, through your feelings for him and vice versus.
Like Gregory quoted about the sorrow of the 3 of Swords and Isis.....Isis was devastated by the death of Osiris and went mad with insanity, hunting up and down the Nile for him. She lost her beauty and died a "thousand" deaths of sorrow until she found him....Her madness recreated her into a funerary goddess....Without sorrow, we really don't understand true joy. Her journey was one of immense proportions. As Jean Houston writes about Isis, "In order to find herself, she must lose herself."
Anyway, I don't play with Thoth decks, so I can't help much further.