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You get the sun as your significator and J gets saturn.
You're afflicted being in the 6th house, and also sun in its sign has no essential dignity....so you are actually very weak in how your feeling at present to do with j, your energy is very low, i think something is stressing you out and making you anxious at present to do with him.....somethings happened that's thrown everything into a spin.
J is in your 5th house, so this is a sexual/romantic r'ship he is interested in. J is in a better position in his head than you are....and its him that has the upperhand in someway in regards to how things progress between you both from now on.
There's no separating aspects between you and j, so i can't really see what's been going on recently between you....maybe you've not seen each other recently or had any contact, or maybe this is just the situation now.
It looks like things are one sided in terms of feelings at this point, as you're in his own sign, so you do love him....but you don't come up anywhere in the sign he's in. So maybe he feels like he doesn't really know you like he thought he did, and he now feels like you've become somewhat indifferent to him in regards to what he wants.
Now looking at your co-significator the moon, the moon is separating from a conjunction with the fixed star Algol.....so something
has gone on between you both recently. You've just totally lost it with him and things have become quite heated and intense between you both and things at this point are not too good.
The moons last major aspect was a square with venus, and with you also being in venus's sign then venus seems to be significant here in whats gone on. Venus is in the 8th house, so i think this just shows you fear of maybe losing him.
The moon being in the exaltation and triplicity of its sign, BUT being on algol, im seeing as you've maybe blown things out of proportion.....so im guessing this has all happened in the past couple days ?
Your emotional side is in saturn's term and face so i think, even as much as you want him your maybe thinking that you would maybe be better off without him at this point ?
As the moon's VOC and ready to move into gemini, it will then lose its strength and will become weak...BUT it will be in the ruler and triplicity of mercury. So looking to where mercury is....mercury is with saturn in the same house and same sign. So as the moons moving into mercury i think you will try and contact him. But also as moons in none of saturns dignity's still in the next sign, then he will still be unsure as of what he wants like present.
As mercury in this chart rules only the 3rd house then i'm reading mercury as communication between you both....there is a conjunction coming up but going by the ephemeris i've checked then this conjunction doesn't perfect. Also mercury is on a fixed star Acumen which is showing damage to your confidence, your determination to succeed, and your mental and physical strength that will be worn down, and this is probably due to the fact that he ignores you.
Also saturn is in the detriment of mercury, so this is another factor that he really doesn't want to speak with you at present.
Also actually moon should infact be in the 11th house (his radical 5th), so you're both in each others opposite 5th house, so even though things are not very good at present you both are still interested in each other romantically.
Your both also being stubborn, and id say this could be you more than him.
Conclusion: So i think your stressing about something that's happened, he's now given you the cold shoulder but doesn't seem as stressed about it as you are....your both being as stubborn as each other in regards to the situation.
There doesn't seem to be any contact between you in regards to seeing each other or txt/calls etc at present.....as moons void of course too, then i can't say how long this will last.
Your both still interested in eachother....but as for his intentions, then at present there are none, as he's not really sure what he wants in regards to you at present.
Hope some of this makes sense to you...even though its not really given you much of a positive answer