Your having mentioned a sense of "wow" when around this guy does suggest feeling dazzled by him -- so it could be said that he's put on an impressive magical show, so far. Your dressing up, applying makeup, etc. on the other hand, is more of an Empress action: seeking to be and feel more alluring in an Earthy way -- to attract loving appreciation and affection, and yes, sometimes security or material things... But it's not the same as a chilly Magician's scheme (if such is actually involved here).
It's also important to note that you apparently haven't been consciously wanting to deceive or "use" this guy... And when a Magician seeks to manipulate another person, its done very consciously: a carefully crafted expression of his "smarts" and varied abilities -- otherwise, he wouldn't get to feel proud of himself if it succeeds (one main goal that is sought). For any unconsciously-driven, so-called "crazy" manipulations, I'd look more to the Moon or perhaps other Watery Majors/cards.
The Wheel for "Long term potential" is notable, too, being very much Mutable (Jupiter) and unpredictable -- as is the Magician (Mercury), for any who try to follow his actions; it does seem to further highlight his influence upon this relationship. If his intentions are good, then he may be able to keep things fresh and stimulating for both of you... OR, on a more neutral note, it may just be a matter of "Poof! He's gone." at some point...
Worst case scenario, he may be up to no good -- but if so, "dark" cards would likely have appeared, as well (or would start to gather in readings about him). In any case, it's best to remain as aware as possible of this guy's actions and how they affect you, as the relationship progresses... This should at least be an interesting ride.
