christinab253
I completed a spread last night regarding the stalemate between myself and another who I am attracted to. This spread can be found in the tarot spreads index. I used the Shadowscape deck.
In the position (number 7) of "what the querent can do to break the stalemate" I drew the 4 Cups. I thought that this was a very odd card to draw and it seems to suggest inaction and doing nothing. But then I wondered if it was, in fact, advising me to make an offer which would certainly break the stalemate. Or to be careful of missing an opportunity.
I pulled a clarifier this morning and drew the 5 Cups. Now I am even more confused! Previous threads have suggested that this card means to focus on the positive things. Well there is nothing negative between me and this other person anyway, only really positive feelings. And I am struggling to see how this ties in with the 4 Cups and what meanings they have in common. Does the 5 Cups represent disappointment from missing an opportunity or failing to take action?
Any other ideas?
In the position (number 7) of "what the querent can do to break the stalemate" I drew the 4 Cups. I thought that this was a very odd card to draw and it seems to suggest inaction and doing nothing. But then I wondered if it was, in fact, advising me to make an offer which would certainly break the stalemate. Or to be careful of missing an opportunity.
I pulled a clarifier this morning and drew the 5 Cups. Now I am even more confused! Previous threads have suggested that this card means to focus on the positive things. Well there is nothing negative between me and this other person anyway, only really positive feelings. And I am struggling to see how this ties in with the 4 Cups and what meanings they have in common. Does the 5 Cups represent disappointment from missing an opportunity or failing to take action?
Any other ideas?