Much of what I'm seeing expressed here also reflects my major pitfall in life - people who have spiritual gifts and who are on a spiritual quest need like-minded mates to really thrive and have the complete love that includes body, mind, and spirit.
Thats it, all in a nut shell. If there isn't hope for her to be herself, to embrace all that life has to give, then love isn't important enough to chase.
You got it honey! Its that hope that there is more than those firsts powerful overwhelming urges, that there is something more to work for and on!
