lilly22
I found this spread here on the forum and I thought I'd give it a try. My boyfriend and I recently broke up but in a very good, friendly way. We're still in contact and everytime we talk I feel like this isn't "the end" but a pause, in a way. Anyway, I just wanted to post it to make sure I'm not just seeing what I want to see.
The name of the spread is dealing with difficulties. You think about what you're having most issues with and pre select two cards first, one that represents your diffculty and one that shows where you want to be once you get past that. The other cards are drawn to show you how to get from point A to point B, sort to speak. I used the Rider-Waite deck and was expecting reversals, didn't get any though.
Here's what I got:
The two cards I chose were Five of Cups and Six of Cups. The five of cups because I'm having a hard time letting go of those three cups that are knocked down and focusing on the two ones left. I still have great things going on in my life, school, friends, but I just don't seem to let go of my relationship with my ex, eventhough it might be what's best for us right now. And the six of cups because I'm hoping this is only a pause and not the actual end of our relationship, and that later on we will be together again.
1) .. What do you need to understand about your present difficulty?
Two of Cups - Here's the thing. Does this mean our relationship is real and we're meant to be together? Or that the reason why I'm having a hard time is because I think we're meant to be?
2) .. How might you change yourself to get past this difficulty?
The Star - Work on my self esteem and be hopeful.
3) .. What wisdom will you gain from your present difficulty?
Page of Wands - I will grow as a person.
4) .. How might you transform your present difficulty into something more positive?
The Fool - See it as a necessary step on your journey through life in order to find happinness.
What do you guys think?
The name of the spread is dealing with difficulties. You think about what you're having most issues with and pre select two cards first, one that represents your diffculty and one that shows where you want to be once you get past that. The other cards are drawn to show you how to get from point A to point B, sort to speak. I used the Rider-Waite deck and was expecting reversals, didn't get any though.
Here's what I got:
The two cards I chose were Five of Cups and Six of Cups. The five of cups because I'm having a hard time letting go of those three cups that are knocked down and focusing on the two ones left. I still have great things going on in my life, school, friends, but I just don't seem to let go of my relationship with my ex, eventhough it might be what's best for us right now. And the six of cups because I'm hoping this is only a pause and not the actual end of our relationship, and that later on we will be together again.
1) .. What do you need to understand about your present difficulty?
Two of Cups - Here's the thing. Does this mean our relationship is real and we're meant to be together? Or that the reason why I'm having a hard time is because I think we're meant to be?
2) .. How might you change yourself to get past this difficulty?
The Star - Work on my self esteem and be hopeful.
3) .. What wisdom will you gain from your present difficulty?
Page of Wands - I will grow as a person.
4) .. How might you transform your present difficulty into something more positive?
The Fool - See it as a necessary step on your journey through life in order to find happinness.
What do you guys think?