Grizabella said:
And for some reason---maybe because I'm getting older, I can spot a woman who is pregnant before anyone else knows. Don't need the cards for that, though.
When I got pregnant with the little one, I'd been arguing with her for some years ("No! I'm not going to have a baby! I hate children! Find someone who actually wants you and will enjoy raising you!" "I don't want anyone else! you'r the right one for me!" and we haven't stopped arguing since, but she's about the only kid I know who hasn't at some point screamed "I never asked to be born!"). Because if this, I was pretty sure she was female - I kept seeing her as a greying women in her mid-fifties throughout this whole period.
I selected a "sperm donor" - had to be someone who was:
intelligent
seemingly healthy
didn't mention contraception or fertility at all as an issue.
This last on the basis that I absolutely wasn't going to go against anyone's will, but if they threw viable sperm cells my way and had not specified how they were to be disposed of, I was free to do what I wanted.
I found someone who fitted the bill. I did whatever it takes on five consecutive weekends. On the Tuesday after the fifth weekend, I suddenly know it had "taken". Rocked up to a doctor, who laughed me out of his surgery, saying "come back in six weeks, if you miss a period which I very much doubt you will." By the time I came back in six weeks, I knew I was carrying a girl. And a Taurus. Hooray! What I didn't realise was that she was going to have both her sun and moon in Taurus, making her a very strong character, but hard to parent (grf!).
Of course, the fact that I *was* pregnant, and was carrying a girl, was completely coincidental - I couldn't possibly have known because at that stage a medical test wouldn't have shown. I couldn't possibly know my own body better than a complete stranger of a doctor.
And no, I never thought to pull cards, although I was using them - it just didn't occur to me. I already knew - I rarely pull cards when I am certain of something.