Emperor as dirty talk?

[LaRazia]

I was wondering how would you read the Emperor card if it came up as dirty talk during intercourse. Lol yes I know weird question.


Does anybody have any um,suggestions? Other than '' daddy '' i am stumped lol

 

[Roy]

it means you gotta make him feel like he's a king so you gotta make him feel like hes the best you ever had.. say stuff that makes him feel like hes number one

 

[Flaming Chalice]

I was wondering how would you read the Emperor card if it came up as dirty talk during intercourse. Lol yes I know weird question.


Does anybody have any um,suggestions? Other than '' daddy '' i am stumped lol

Position of authority. "Top." You sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride - I've got this. I am in charge. I will take care of everything you need tonight. Just relax and go along with it. And yes, daddy stuff, I suppose.

 

[LaRazia]

it means you gotta make him feel like he's a king so you gotta make him feel like hes the best you ever had.. say stuff that makes him feel like hes number one

oh no, it came up as what the guy will say to the girl.

 

[Roy]

oh no, it came up as what the guy will say to the girl.

lol ok then it means you have to submit to the king and do what he says
so he'll say possessive stuff and things that make him feel good.. anything that makes him feel better about him and stuff

 

[SirRushing]

He gonna say "Let's play cops and robbers...I am the cop...you are the bad bad girl".

Since cops are the "authority" and the Emperor represents that.


But overall, the Emperor would get straight to the point in talking dirty by saying direct sexual things that is not romantic. He wouldn't say "Let's make sweet love until the sun rises, you love my life. " rather he would say instead "I am going to f*ck you until you can't take it no more. You got me horny, you dirty little whore."

The Emperor is way too logical to get all poetic with words.

 

[Grizabella]

That "daddy" stuff is a huge turn-off sexually for anyone who has been a victim of incest. Take it from me.

And I don't know if the Emperor would be derogatory to his lover at all. He'd be in a position of authority as in taking everything in hand (no pun ) and being the one to instigate positions and all that, but I don't think he'd have so little class as to call the lover a "dirty whore" or anything like that. On the other hand, he IS the Emperor, so if he wants to degrade a lover, I guess that's what he intends to do and feels entitled to.

Hmmm, maybe he'd not say it outright but by his arrogant snobbish and belittling actions and what he does say, he'd certainly make her feel she wasn't much in his eyes. How's that for compromise?

 

[SirRushing]

That "daddy" stuff is a huge turn-off sexually for anyone who has been a victim of incest. Take it from me.

And I don't know if the Emperor would be derogatory to his lover at all. He'd be in a position of authority as in taking everything in hand (no pun ) and being the one to instigate positions and all that, but I don't think he'd have so little class as to call the lover a "dirty whore" or anything like that. On the other hand, he IS the Emperor, so if he wants to degrade a lover, I guess that's what he intends to do and feels entitled to.

Hmmm, maybe he'd not say it outright but by his arrogant snobbish and belittling actions and what he does say, he'd certainly make her feel she wasn't much in his eyes. How's that for compromise?

We as humans are so hypocritical at times. Dirty whore can be "degrading", but aren't we really acting like whores when having sex? Isn't sex whorish? The Emperor is just calling it what it is. If you are giving a man a blow job then you are a "you dirty d*ck sucker", because sucking on the "D" is what you are doing. So if someone calls you that while having sex, and finds offense to it....I can't see why. I mean, it is what it is. That is why I say Emperor is "logical" by saying things by how he sees it. He isn't trying to be demeaning, he is just trying to be honest. Another example, if you are swallowing your man's "chunks" after BJ, would you get upset if you call you a "c*m guzzling whore?" when c*m guzzling is what you are doing?


Some people can't take blunt honesty and probably find offense to the truth of the situation.

As for the Daddy comment, well, I get your point, but not everyone has been turned out by their biological daddy.

A lot of Puerto Rican and Cubans call their girlfriends/wives "mami" and their boyfriends/husbands "papi", so it is not uncommon to give your lover a affectionate parental title.

Same with blacks with the "Big Daddy" and "Big Mama" nickname for lovers.

 

[JoyousGirl]

I think the Emperor would mean either control by way of "lift your leg here, put that one there" type thing. Control by way of instructions on what he wants you to do. "Don't move!" "Faster".

Maybe "Tell me how much you worship me" blah blah

Dirty whore can be "degrading", but aren't we really acting like whores when having sex? Isn't sex whorish? .

It may be so in your mindset, perhaps you've watched too much porn, or been exposed to deadsh*t partners. But to others it's an expression of love, and a desire to get close to someone they love. Perhaps even procreation (its original purpose). Maybe when people know each other very well they'd occasionally get into this format but it doesn't engender respect or show respect for the person you're with - even if it is an act of play, or if there's a one night stand anything goes. Like a threesome, might be a nice idea, but not so good in practice and after effects.[/QUOTE]

The Emperor is just calling it what it is.

Your interpretation from your perspective gleaned from your experience.

If you are giving a man a blow job then you are a "you dirty d*ck sucker", because sucking on the "D" is what you are doing. So if someone calls you that while having sex, and finds offense to it....I can't see why.

Why use the word dirty? And the technical term for such an act is fellatio.

I mean, it is what it is. That is why I say Emperor is "logical" by saying things by how he sees it. He isn't trying to be demeaning, he is just trying to be honest.

If he's being honest that means he must be a total arse. I'll remember this if I pull the Emperor (no pun intended) to describe a man I'm considering dating. (Definitely won't be going there if he's being honest when he calls me a whore - he can go and pay for that)

Some people can't take blunt honesty and probably find offense to the truth of the situation.

It's your perspective, it may be honest to you, but it doesn't mean it's the truth.

 

[BrightEye]

On the other hand, he IS the Emperor, so if he wants to degrade a lover, I guess that's what he intends to do and feels entitled to.

Hmmm, maybe he'd not say it outright but by his arrogant snobbish and belittling actions and what he does say, he'd certainly make her feel she wasn't much in his eyes. How's that for compromise?

Reversed Emperor that in my book!