Dark Inquisitor said:
One can also receive information about people just by thinking about them, whether one actively asked or not. We live in a psychic soup of information exchange all the time. So, we all better polish up our souls lest our inner selves leak out for all to see! Or at least for the psychically gifted to perceive.
The tarot does not come with laws and edicts. Ultimately, one is responsible for what one does with it just as one is called to spiritual account in other areas of life. Right intention might be taken into consideration. Also, the phrase "do no harm" might be useful.
The above sums it up for me. I think discussions like this do give cause for reflection, not only on the subject of ethics in reading but also on how much we listen to each other on this forum (and in real life), and how we treat others. I have seen countless threads on Aeclectic where people clearly have not read or reflected on the words of others and the thread takes a chaotic life of its own. Please note that I'm not pointing a finger at anyone in this thread, just making a general observation after years of experience here.
le pendu said:
I remember months ago a thread of readings to help find a missing girl.
Where does this fall into the discussion?
That is a very interesting question.
A few years ago a young woman, Brooke Wilburger, was taken from her sister's motel in a northern US State. She has never been found. Indigo Rose led a series of readings at Aeclectic with the aim of helping to find her. Those readings occurred in the intense days after Brooke’s disappearance when the search was very active and Indigo Rose passed the information from these readings on to the authorities who were desperate for ANY information. I joined in the process because I have a lot of respect for Indigo Rose as a reader, and the disappearance of the young woman in that manner caused me quite intense distress.
After a while I suggested, along with others, that we stop the process because some of it seemed to become a little speculative. I felt we were in danger of becoming like the media, but metaphysically. All the readings were posted here and for some reason I felt very uncomfortable about the direction some of it was heading. Assertions could be made with very little evidence. It was a really good example of collective "ethics" in action. We all agreed to let it go, and apart from one brief attempt at looking for a mass murderer in Massachusetts, I've never participated in another of those exercises, and nor or will I. I can manage my own ethics, not the approach of others.
I did separate readings some time ago on the disappearance of two people in Iraq, Margaret Hassan and Donald Wood. Both of those readings were on the *disappearance* of the those two people and not on anything else
about them. Again, I experienced a very deep distress in both situations and felt a strong urge to do the readings. Perhaps that was simply a *tuning in* to a particular wave length of pain. They were "political” disappearances as well, not with the *hometown* and very personal aspects of Brooke's disappearance. The ethical issues were different for me, anyway. In reality, the ethics around the three situations were unique.
I do agree with the remarks of early posters that all situations call for an individual and unique approach. That does not mean, however, that one should not have "codes of ethics" as I stated in an earlier post and that there is something inherently unnecessary about such codes. I suspect those who say they don't have them do indeed have them but they may simply be unwritten. We all have, I think, our own psychic codes of ethics. We may simply call them our conscience.
Moongold