Beebs_94
Minderwiz, if the thread is still open, do you think you could cast a chart for me? Thanks in advance
By my count, there are three remaining questions or questioers.
Kittysashimi
My understanding of your question is that you want to know whether it might be better to have separate apartments as you get to know each other in person, rather than go directly to living with each other. I'm not sure from your background info whether 'immediately after we meet' means literally that, or there is a short period of time whilst you are both getting the apartment fully ready. If the former I would suggest the question is:
Should we move in together next month? Which gives a little leeway but if the answer is 'No' only applies to moving in together in August and leaves fully open moving in together at any later date.
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Well we will definitely be moving in together in August because we already got the plane tickets and the apartment is already fully prepared. And yes I meant literally the moment I see him for the very first time we'll be heading off in a cab to check into our apartment
Would it be better if I changed the question to "Will our relationship improve for the better after we move in together?"
Yes, as if the decision is already taken, I doubt I can get a workable chart. The main thing is that the question is about something that is of great importance to you and affects you directly. The question as restated would certainly work, assuming you don't have more fundamental concerns.
By my count, there are three remaining questions or questioers.
Kittysashimi
My understanding of your question is that you want to know whether it might be better to have separate apartments as you get to know each other in person, rather than go directly to living with each other. I'm not sure from your background info whether 'immediately after we meet' means literally that, or there is a short period of time whilst you are both getting the apartment fully ready. If the former I would suggest the question is:
Should we move in together next month? Which gives a little leeway but if the answer is 'No' only applies to moving in together in August and leaves fully open moving in together at any later date.
xKam, Beebs_94
Yes the thread is still open so you may post question