Reading for Ethereal
hi!
if your taking more sitter's i would love a reading. here is my question:
what are the possibilities that B and i will be able to reconnect and reconcile at some point in the future?
anytbing you get around this situation at all, please let me know. thank you!
here is the clairification you needed:
yes, B and i were in a romantic relationship
i would like to renew the old relationship
i am female
anything else you need, please let me know. thank you so much for you time and effort doing this for me!
My first two attempts at a chart produced a 'No outcome' and a 'Never comes to any good' considerations so here's my third and final attempt:
The chart has Leo rising, so you are signified by the Sun, which is currently in Cancer where it has no essential dignity (Peregrine). You really don't have much, if any, power to affect the outcome here, and you will probably need at least some help from someone else. Furthermore the Sun is in the twelfth House, which is not a good position - it can't be 'seen' from the Ascendant and also as it is the ruler of the Ascendant, that weakens its position still further. So you're not really well placed to do anuthing and you don't really have much power to act, even if you could....not really an ideal situation.
He is signified by Saturn, ruler of the Descendant. Saturn is in Libra, where it is in Exaltation, so he's much more able to act than you. That's good if he's in a position to act and also wants to act. Only one of you need take that first step.
Saturn is in the fourth House - it is angular, so he's also in a position to act But there's still quite a lot of bad feeling, both on his part and yours. The Sun in Cancer is in the Detriment of Saturn, and Saturn in Libra is in the Fall of the Sun. If you had not had a previous relationship, I'd say you didn't like each other. That might still be the case if the break up was acrimonious but asking this question suggests that you want to let the past go. I'm not sure that will hold for him.
The next thing to look for is an aspect between Sun and Saturn which is applying = that would signal that the two of you are coming together again. Now there is such as aspect. The Sun in Cancer is applying to a square with Saturn in Libra. Such an aspect suggests that you will come together but not necessarily that the relationship will resume. If the planets were in opposite signs, then I'd say almost certainly that the relationship will rekindle. As it is the past might be the problem, at least as far as he's concerned.
If this comes off, it will be with difficulty and a lot of work and quite possibly help from someone else, such as a friend I've looked at the Lots of Marriage, The Valens Lot, which is the most used one, is ruled by the Sun and shows your interest but his antipathy, (Leo is the Detriment of Saturn, though there is some slight hope from it falling in the Decan of Saturn. Of the others, Saturn only features in the Alternative Lot for Men, and then only as Term ruler....his enthusiasm for a rekindling of the flame is at best luke warm indicating the scale of your problem here.
It might come off, iff he gets to notice you things might change but I think it's going to be an uneasy reunion and you might find it doesn't go as hoped or there are delays and other issues first.
The good thing is that there is a possibility and that is better than offering nothing But don't assume that you won't have to work long and hard and that he has to decide it's worth pursuing for this to come off.