Interesting combo

[SamJam]

Hi Everyone,
I told my ex that i missed him and I was communicating with him very openly and I'm just waiting for him to respond.
So i did a reading this morning and for the most part it made sense to me up until i pulled a card for clarity.

So in the near future position i got the Queen of Cups and then for the outcome I got the 9 of swords. I took that as I worry too much and my love situation is giving me way too much anxiety.I pulled an extra card for the outcome and I got the 4 of wands. I didn't know how to interpret that.

I figured maybe queen cups could also represent me being open with him about my feelings but being open with him is giving me a lot of anxiety because i cant read his mind. But 4 of wands meaning it all works out and i'm worrying for no reason. Of course I'm bias and probably completely off.

Any thoughts?

 

[IndigoWaves]

The 'Near Future' Queen of Cups reflects an ongoing focus on feelings for him and waiting for his response. The 9 of Swords 'Outcome', however, suggests that you'll become upset -- by either no reply at all or an unfavorable one. The 4 of Wands shows attempts to bypass that pain/loss with optimism, and perhaps further actions to encourage his return.

 

[dandelionwine]

Hi samjam
I think the four of wands points to a timing of a resolution of your relationship problem.
I know timing with the tarot is a bone of contention with many not being able to agree, but can I stick my neck out so to speak and say I think within 4 weeks you will both be seeing things clearer and know where you stand.
best wishes

 

[SamJam]

Thank you both!
I really appreciate it!

 

[EmpyreanKnight]

The Queen of Cups does refer to you, as the querent/reader with an intense emotional concern (Cups). The 9 of Swords say that you do worry too much over your ex, the 4 of Wands (being clarificatory) is like the cards saying don't worry, that it will stabilize soon, and that whatever happens, in the long run it will lead to harmony in general and contentment on your side.

 

[Sulis]

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[mrs ahab]

Hi Everyone,
I told my ex that i missed him and I was communicating with him very openly and I'm just waiting for him to respond.
So i did a reading this morning and for the most part it made sense to me up until i pulled a card for clarity.

So in the near future position i got the Queen of Cups and then for the outcome I got the 9 of swords. I took that as I worry too much and my love situation is giving me way too much anxiety.I pulled an extra card for the outcome and I got the 4 of wands. I didn't know how to interpret that.

I figured maybe queen cups could also represent me being open with him about my feelings but being open with him is giving me a lot of anxiety because i cant read his mind. But 4 of wands meaning it all works out and i'm worrying for no reason. Of course I'm bias and probably completely off.

Any thoughts?

the 4 of wands also is about openness, coming out into the open and letting down barriers in order to be happy and more carefree.

 

[Sulis]

Another moderator note

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See my moderator note above.

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[SamJam]

The 'Near Future' Queen of Cups reflects an ongoing focus on feelings for him and waiting for his response. The 9 of Swords 'Outcome', however, suggests that you'll become upset -- by either no reply at all or an unfavorable one. The 4 of Wands shows attempts to bypass that pain/loss with optimism, and perhaps further actions to encourage his return.

I waited a few days for a response or for him to reach out and received nothing which was upsetting but I quickly realized that it did not matter and definitely went straight to optimism though i have no intention of reaching out to him to encourage his return since he's made it pretty clear he doesn't care.

 

[SamJam]

The Queen of Cups does refer to you, as the querent/reader with an intense emotional concern (Cups). The 9 of Swords say that you do worry too much over your ex, the 4 of Wands (being clarificatory) is like the cards saying don't worry, that it will stabilize soon, and that whatever happens, in the long run it will lead to harmony in general and contentment on your side.

That's definitely how I interpreted it originally. Right now I am content with the situation and accepting that I may never see him again.