Pao
i tried to come up with a relationship spread for when the actions, feeling and words of one person do not match up. For example what the person says or how they act is not really what they feel inside for you or about the relationship etc. I named it Out of Synch.
Anyway im having a hard time because i think I am missing something I just dont know what. I dont bother with positions because they confuse me. I just lay them all next to eachother.
1. What they say to the outside world (about the person/their feelings for the person)
2. Reason they say this
3. How they act/what behavior they show the outside world
4. Reason they act that way
5. What they really feel inside for the person(but dont tell anyone)
6. Reason they mask their true feelings
7. What they really think about the person
8. What these thoughts are based on (ie. past thought patterns)
9. What needs to happen for them to show their true feelings
10. What the quarant can do to help their true feelings come to the surface.
I feel like I missed something
Anyway im having a hard time because i think I am missing something I just dont know what. I dont bother with positions because they confuse me. I just lay them all next to eachother.
1. What they say to the outside world (about the person/their feelings for the person)
2. Reason they say this
3. How they act/what behavior they show the outside world
4. Reason they act that way
5. What they really feel inside for the person(but dont tell anyone)
6. Reason they mask their true feelings
7. What they really think about the person
8. What these thoughts are based on (ie. past thought patterns)
9. What needs to happen for them to show their true feelings
10. What the quarant can do to help their true feelings come to the surface.
I feel like I missed something