fchiaramonte
This thread brought some memories to my mind from when I was at the other end of the spectrum - as someone listening to readings and knowing nothing about Tarot cards.
I was in a nightclub in a summer night and at some point late into the sound and fury I settled at an open window to breath fresh air. That place was hot as arcanum XV. I noticed that I was dividing this window with a girl and we naturally started to chat and cool our heads outside the building. The talking progressed and at some point we began to talk about Tarot. She told me that she did readings and in fact was carring a mini-Tarot deck in her pocket. She asked if I wanted a quick reading and I agreeded. So she pulled out only one card from the deck and started to talk about it regarding a question of mine that I don't remember. I really enjoyed the "trick", but that was it. We talked some more and I departed from the window. She didn't look pushy (neither did I, as I was there for the air breeze and enjoying the good talk with no intentions) and we didn't really engage in anything else - it was a magic enconter in the night and it turned out to be a good memory of mine regarding the Tarot (I remember that card to this day, as it was one of my first readings).
From this I can say that these kind of things happen naturally. You can carry a deck, but this won't make you a sexual guru in the end. It can make you a charlatan, actually, if you pretend to use it as bait for something else than the other person is specting from a reading (unless the other person is using your own Tarot to also bait you - so look out!).
I would also ask yourself why do you need the Tarot to impress girls. Maybe you can show that you are sensitive through other means - for ex: you can show that you are a good listener and also an attentive observer (two characteristics that good Tarot readers have that can be applied everywhere and that women appreciate).
All in all, you can surely integrate the Tarot in you life, carry a mini-deck around. Good things and memories can come from this. It would be just as natural as gazing at the clouds and reading forms from it in casual situations. I would just align your intentions and the intentions of the other person regarding you and the cards. A miscarried match in this Tinderot game can cast bad karma into you.
Cheers!
I was in a nightclub in a summer night and at some point late into the sound and fury I settled at an open window to breath fresh air. That place was hot as arcanum XV. I noticed that I was dividing this window with a girl and we naturally started to chat and cool our heads outside the building. The talking progressed and at some point we began to talk about Tarot. She told me that she did readings and in fact was carring a mini-Tarot deck in her pocket. She asked if I wanted a quick reading and I agreeded. So she pulled out only one card from the deck and started to talk about it regarding a question of mine that I don't remember. I really enjoyed the "trick", but that was it. We talked some more and I departed from the window. She didn't look pushy (neither did I, as I was there for the air breeze and enjoying the good talk with no intentions) and we didn't really engage in anything else - it was a magic enconter in the night and it turned out to be a good memory of mine regarding the Tarot (I remember that card to this day, as it was one of my first readings).
From this I can say that these kind of things happen naturally. You can carry a deck, but this won't make you a sexual guru in the end. It can make you a charlatan, actually, if you pretend to use it as bait for something else than the other person is specting from a reading (unless the other person is using your own Tarot to also bait you - so look out!).
I would also ask yourself why do you need the Tarot to impress girls. Maybe you can show that you are sensitive through other means - for ex: you can show that you are a good listener and also an attentive observer (two characteristics that good Tarot readers have that can be applied everywhere and that women appreciate).
All in all, you can surely integrate the Tarot in you life, carry a mini-deck around. Good things and memories can come from this. It would be just as natural as gazing at the clouds and reading forms from it in casual situations. I would just align your intentions and the intentions of the other person regarding you and the cards. A miscarried match in this Tinderot game can cast bad karma into you.
Cheers!