Ronia
No, I got the news yesterday but it may have happened then... I don't know what else to think. And no, Velntine's day was just a regular day, I wasn't thinking much about anything, spent it with my son as usual.
No, I got the news yesterday but it may have happened then... I don't know what else to think. And no, Velntine's day was just a regular day, I wasn't thinking much about anything, spent it with my son as usual.
Your system is intriguing. Just looking at the cards, I'd likely have come up with something different - there are things that need to be addressed, but the basis of a relationship would be friendship, trust and loyalty, with the possibility for a commitment, maybe even marriage.
In your system, how did you know to stop reducing the numbers at the scythe? Why not break 10 down to 1 - the rider? The same could be done with the combinations - the book would become the coffin, the lilies the ship, and the scythe would be the rider.
That's kind of how I saw things too. There are some problems that may or may not be surmountable. They're mostly on his side and he does need time to contemplate. We have had a lot of conversations and there are worries on both our sides. The rider seems to be a theme in my spreads lately. To change a friendship into a committed relationship, I assume happiness would be involved. It is a happy friendship (albeit a bit stressed right now), so the cards could just be advising to look at how things are now. What would be add to the relationship? Is that what's missing? Is it causing happiness/unhappiness now? Or they could just be saying try it and see. There's no harm and things just might work out.
I agree completely. I honestly don't know if we'd be happy or if things would work. We're happy as friends, but a lot would change and who knows if we'd be happy. There would be a lot of things to address. I think if we did decide to pursue things, it would take a lot of time before a committed relationship would be feasible. I also know the decision isn't in my hands. I tried to make a decision and got a very loud cosmic message that it wasn't mine to make. I think if I tried to make it again, a bird will literally poop on my head.
MK is right in that you asked a yes/no question and if the scythe is the answer to that its likely a no, and the rider can bring good news but also can be very fickle as a person.
I am not sure the decision is in your hands to be honest, the fox here is looking after their own interests, fox//path would lead me to beleive he would have to make the decision so therefore its out of your hands really.
Before you both go too far on this, there is no scythe in the spread that MK had done... There is an assumed scythe by adding numerical values. The cards themselves were:
Birds - Fox - Dog - Path - Ring
The question aught to be answered with these only. Personally, I hate Y/N spreads, but this one seems positive.