BLFO
Nah, homosexual relationships are different. A relationship is not "A" relationship. I think interracial and interreligious relationships are different. They pose certain problems that other relationships do not.
I am sure his reasons for putting down the family questions is important, since many families who are uncomfortable with homosexual relationships may have certain views on the relationship in general or the person that gay or lesbian person is dating. I think gays and lesbians are more concerned about what their family thinks about their partner than heterosexuals have to care.
As for the hiding and being faithful questions, I don't see anything wrong with that. First of all, there are plenty of heterosexual spreads in the index of women asking the question if their man is faithful to them. Or there are spreads asking what their lover is hiding from them. People want to know that in general regardless of sexual preference.
And maybe for his age group, or gender preference maybe promoscuity is an issue. I am a bi female. Sorry, must admit I hear from gay mean complain about issues of cheating far more than you hear lesbians discuss it. But hell, many sex studies show that men cheat on women far more than women cheat on men in heterosexual relationships.
I know a lot of feminist (women in general) don't like to hear this talk (because women would like to think their man is 100% dedicated to them but...) when it comes to discussing heterosexual relationships, but men ain't prone for monogamy. Men are promiscous by nature (gay, bi or heterosexual). Even the most serious and long-term gay relationships, I know are still sexually open relationships. For gays, not lesbians, partnering/coupling doesn't exclude not having sex with other people.
So I think his wording reflects what is going on in his gay community. Very natural and realistic.
I know some people would like to politically correct the spread, but his thoughts mimicks his life experience.
Personally, I think there is a difference between gay, lesbian, bi and heterosexual relationships. On basic level, yes, we can use any kind of generic love relationship spread. However, I think there should be more spreads created based on sexual preference and gender difference. Each gender and sexual preference have different concepts of love and ideas on what constitutes a relationship. Gays differ from lesbian and homosexual differs from heterosexual.
I think his spread is fine. But again, I am not a political correct person.
I am sure his reasons for putting down the family questions is important, since many families who are uncomfortable with homosexual relationships may have certain views on the relationship in general or the person that gay or lesbian person is dating. I think gays and lesbians are more concerned about what their family thinks about their partner than heterosexuals have to care.
As for the hiding and being faithful questions, I don't see anything wrong with that. First of all, there are plenty of heterosexual spreads in the index of women asking the question if their man is faithful to them. Or there are spreads asking what their lover is hiding from them. People want to know that in general regardless of sexual preference.
And maybe for his age group, or gender preference maybe promoscuity is an issue. I am a bi female. Sorry, must admit I hear from gay mean complain about issues of cheating far more than you hear lesbians discuss it. But hell, many sex studies show that men cheat on women far more than women cheat on men in heterosexual relationships.
I know a lot of feminist (women in general) don't like to hear this talk (because women would like to think their man is 100% dedicated to them but...) when it comes to discussing heterosexual relationships, but men ain't prone for monogamy. Men are promiscous by nature (gay, bi or heterosexual). Even the most serious and long-term gay relationships, I know are still sexually open relationships. For gays, not lesbians, partnering/coupling doesn't exclude not having sex with other people.
So I think his wording reflects what is going on in his gay community. Very natural and realistic.
I know some people would like to politically correct the spread, but his thoughts mimicks his life experience.
Personally, I think there is a difference between gay, lesbian, bi and heterosexual relationships. On basic level, yes, we can use any kind of generic love relationship spread. However, I think there should be more spreads created based on sexual preference and gender difference. Each gender and sexual preference have different concepts of love and ideas on what constitutes a relationship. Gays differ from lesbian and homosexual differs from heterosexual.
I think his spread is fine. But again, I am not a political correct person.