Not sure what I can add to what has already been excellently said, above.
However, I think you need to understand a fact about tarot - it is a self-work tool, a mirror, a reflection of your thoughts at the time you read.
It would be really fatalistic to do things just because some reader told you the cards said to! And I echo Boomz's question - how the heck could a reader have seen such a thing! I would love to see the lay-out of cards that made her feel she could advise you to leave your job for some guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have never, ever seen such a thing in the cards, and I have been reading for 30 years.
I agree with the Boomz and Holly Doll and Danieljuk, especially - this forum is a good tool for learning how to use (not abuse!) the cards, and how to do readings that benefit you in a positive way (reading exchanges). It might really help you understand the cards far better.
While I do enjoy predictive reading, FOR FUN, never once have I made a decision based on it. This would just go completely against the theory of free will. My life is as I make it...and not as some reader makes it. Or cards.
I like to let my destiny, my life, my intuition, and my choices rule me, and not some - mysterious force, or some other person's opinion. Insight is good, but the predictive nature of these things can only be a "best guess at this time, providing nothing at all changes" and is never written in stone...
Please, be welcome here; please, be at peace...put it in perspective...and as others have said, please, love and believe in yourself, in your own power to understand your life, and in your absolute power to make correct decisions for yourself.
Oh yeah - and leave the loser guy behind!
ETA and the 9 of Cups can often mean, "be really careful what you wish for - are you really sure you want this.....?" So I don't see it as any guarantee of future happiness.