star-lover
when one persons venus is exact conjunct the others ascendant who is the one in love then? or are they both?
stardancer said:I have an interesting relationship with a man I share squares with. We both have Venus square each other's Sun, and Mars square each other's Sun. Our suns are trine by sign, our moons are conjunct and his Venus Mars is conjunct and mine is in opposition. There are other aspects to the charts where we are similar in personality and habits, and there is a stabilizing Saturn to Mars trine.
Does Dave have anything to say to that, lol?
star-lover said:the 2 squares i dont like one bit in synastry is venus square saturn and moon square saturn - both v problematic - even more so than moon/pluto harsh aspects
stardancer said:Oh, yeah. Those Saturn squares can be harsh, but in order for a relationship to stay together, you need to have Saturn aspects. Saturn squares seem to force people to stay together for duty reasons, and you see a lot of charts with them. Relationships aren't supposed to be all Venus and Jupiter. That's too bad, imo. lol. I like Venus and Jupiter.
Squares are such a mixed bag in synastry, because they present a situation between two people they can't ignore. And the situation is rough, not easy flowing like a trine.
I guess trouble is the spice of life... if you're a Scorpio or Pluto inclined person.