Ruby Jewel
I find the words
"snooping"
" contributing to the querent's obsession"
"highly unethical as a professional practice"
pretty derogatory to start with. I'm not sure how the thread can get more derogatory. They describe common practices of may members of this forum both on and off line. Are you suggesting that this forum itself promotes highly unethical practices?
I also think that "That is my take on it" is pretty clearly a personal opinion.
I feel that most professional tarot readers have ethical standards that take the possible psychological pathologies of their particular client under consideration. A lot of damage is done by unprofessional readers who are completely ignorant of the psychological ramifications of their prognostications. There is no need to presume this forum is made up of nonprofessional readers.