Reed
I did my very first face-to-face reading last evening It was for a friend after we had dinner. I did a CC for a general feel of her energy then a horseshoe spread for her specific question.
I've used a shadow card (the card at the bottom of the deck after the querent is done shuffling) to fine tune the direction for my own readings with great success, so I used the same for my friend. She asked a health question (what would be the outcome of some tests that are being done). Well the outcome was 6 Rods (wands), so I told her that as long as she follows what the doctors say she should be fine.
Here's the kicker: I peeked at the shadow card while she was talking to me and got the Devil. When I pull this card, it usually tells me that whatever bondage that is going on is of my own doing. I didn't share this information with my friend, because she, frankly, doesn't view the Tarot as a tool for self-exploration.
Is it that the tests will be OK, or that she would be successful in making herself sick? Should I have shared that bit of info with her? I don't mind being direct when I do readings here at AT, because you guys can take it. When dealing with a layman, I'm unsure. She didn't specifically ask for a reading--I said something like, "I have my cards, I could do a reading for you..."
What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance.
All the best
Reed
I've used a shadow card (the card at the bottom of the deck after the querent is done shuffling) to fine tune the direction for my own readings with great success, so I used the same for my friend. She asked a health question (what would be the outcome of some tests that are being done). Well the outcome was 6 Rods (wands), so I told her that as long as she follows what the doctors say she should be fine.
Here's the kicker: I peeked at the shadow card while she was talking to me and got the Devil. When I pull this card, it usually tells me that whatever bondage that is going on is of my own doing. I didn't share this information with my friend, because she, frankly, doesn't view the Tarot as a tool for self-exploration.
Is it that the tests will be OK, or that she would be successful in making herself sick? Should I have shared that bit of info with her? I don't mind being direct when I do readings here at AT, because you guys can take it. When dealing with a layman, I'm unsure. She didn't specifically ask for a reading--I said something like, "I have my cards, I could do a reading for you..."
What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance.
All the best
Reed