EmpressSha
My dear Tarot enthusiasts,
I am struggling to understand something that happened to me a couple of days ago... Without going in to too much detail (because I'm feeling very confused and embarrassed as well as a lot of other things about it) basically someone I trusted and thought I knew well behaved in a way that was completely out of character and did something very hurtful to me.
I wanted to find or create a spread to understand why he did what he did although I am also not sure how ethical it is to ask what I would like to ask. I came up with an idea for a spread but it seems to be missing something.
Please could you tell me your opinions on the spread, if you have any suggestions to improve it or could reccomend one already in existence and also if you think it is ethical?
I called it "What's going on?"
Layout is just a straight line at the moment but I'm open to ideas
1. Represents the person (how are they, their energy at present, their mindstate or personality at the moment)
2. Their situation (what is going on in their life, external/internal influences at present)
3. The incident/event (what actually happened from their point of view)
4. Why it happened (influences on them, energies, any reason for them to act in such a way)
5. Advice (either what I can do to help the person or how to discuss this with them so that it never happens again and we can continue with our relationship)
Thank you in advance
Sha x
I am struggling to understand something that happened to me a couple of days ago... Without going in to too much detail (because I'm feeling very confused and embarrassed as well as a lot of other things about it) basically someone I trusted and thought I knew well behaved in a way that was completely out of character and did something very hurtful to me.
I wanted to find or create a spread to understand why he did what he did although I am also not sure how ethical it is to ask what I would like to ask. I came up with an idea for a spread but it seems to be missing something.
Please could you tell me your opinions on the spread, if you have any suggestions to improve it or could reccomend one already in existence and also if you think it is ethical?
I called it "What's going on?"
Layout is just a straight line at the moment but I'm open to ideas
1. Represents the person (how are they, their energy at present, their mindstate or personality at the moment)
2. Their situation (what is going on in their life, external/internal influences at present)
3. The incident/event (what actually happened from their point of view)
4. Why it happened (influences on them, energies, any reason for them to act in such a way)
5. Advice (either what I can do to help the person or how to discuss this with them so that it never happens again and we can continue with our relationship)
Thank you in advance
Sha x